Anonymous asked: how do you resist food? i want to be skinny so much but i always have cravings and find it so hard to resist certain foods especially when i'm eating out
It’s not about resisting food, it’s about portioning food. If you have a craving then eat what you’re craving. Just eat smaller portions of it. You’re more likely to binge if you try and resist everything you want to eat.
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Okay, something that really pisses me off to no end is when people say “Everyone is beautiful! You don’t have to be super skinny to be beautiful. Girls who are super skinny are ugly and gross. No one wants a bag of bones.”
But doesn’t that defeat the point of saying everyone is lovely the way they are no matter what their body looks like? Don’t get me wrong, i wish for everyone to be safe and healthy and happy, but just because you’re super skinny or super overweight, how does that make you less of a beautiful or good person? No one should be put down because of their weight period.
A new year. A new year to hate myself. A new year in which i’m still not skinny enough.
I think i’ll save you all the trouble and put this behind a read more.
Anonymous asked: I don't know how to feel/what to do. A man loves me, but we aren't and can't be together right now, and I love him and need him tonight. I want to reach out but feel ashamed to crawl to him after he's hurt me so much. He still crawls to me often despite how I hurt him. I want to make everything right but I feel like that would be cheap and needy and unadmirable. Should I tell him how I feel, should I reach out?
I have problems like this of my own. You shouldn’t feel ashamed to want someone and you shouldn’t feel needy. I would tell him how you feel but don’t let him control your emotions or treat you bad. Reach out but don’t let him control you or hurt you.
If you have anything ask away. Really, basically about anything. I need a distraction from this bad mood. All will be posted unless stated otherwise.
